It’s okay to say “no” if you change your mind. We allow you to change majors and change direction and change clothes, with no repercussions other than possibly wasted time. If his touch is too forceful and his breath too hot and his weight too much, you are not bound to your previous decision. If your mimd is screaming and your nerves are sizzling, they are as valid then and now as they were five minutes ago, when you were saying yes.
It’s okay to say “no” if you were flirting. Batted eyelashes and sly smirks and witty words do not form a map to your uncharted territory. Your playfulness does not relieve them of their self control. Your allure does not diminish their responsibility to be respectful. The only path you led them on is that of the unknown, of which the rules of the road still apply.
It’s okay to say “no” if you’re unsure.
It’s okay to say “no” if you’re embarrassed.
It’s okay to say “no” when they tell you it isn’t okay to say “no.”
—When It’s Ok To Say “No”
Effects Of Thinking White People Are “All Like That”:
- Literally nothing other than white people having their feelings hurt on the internet
- I’m not joking there is no real world consequence of this
Effects Of Thinking People of Color Are “All Like That”:
I wish self-esteem campaigns would focus less on “everyone is beautiful” and more on “who the fuck cares if you are beautiful or not”
I want a friendship like this one.
AHHHHH! My swim collection is AVAILABLE NOW! BUY IT HERE!
go to gabifresh.com for more pics and important info about sizing/fit before buying!
Need. Galaxy print suit and coverup.
reblogging again because i may or may not have juuuuuuuust made a very financially irresponsible decision that i will absolutely regret (in my bank account, not on my body) and nabbed the high waisted galaxy fatkini that gabi is wearing! i’ve been waiting and waiting for this to release and seeing how this is blowing up, i didn’t want it to sell out in my size.
also - there’s a coupon code on the site, 10SHIP that gave free shipping plus 10% off the order - bringing it with tax, shipping, and all to about 66 doll hairs. save some bucks if you’re gonna order it! :)
i. cannot. wait! i really hope it looks nice on me!
the galaxy suit is on backorder! I just got the notification :( however, you can also use MAY1 for 25% off!
The code LAUNCH expires today & gives you 20% off + free shipping. Also, I REALLY WANT THAT GALAXY SUIT
the fact that you can’t highlight words that you accidentally caps locked and hit Caps Lock to get them lowercase is the reason i can’t sleep at night
except that you can do that
then press shift + F3
WHY DID I NOT KNOW ABOUT THIS
it breaks my heart knowing that i will never receive a blowjob
“The nature of SNL is that it’s so in-the-moment. I feel like I’m going to wake up in August and turn to my wife and say ‘Was I really on SNL?’ It went by so fast.”
Bill Hader on interview with GQ Magazine for the 2013 Comedy Issue.
the thing that sucks about NBC’s failures now is that we don’t have 30 Rock to hilariously kick them while they’re down anymore
Well, this is lovely.
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ciara. 21. san diego/new york. nanny. poli sci/psych/media crit major.
queer. sex positive. sadomasochist. geeky. fangirl.
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